I hope I can help ease your mind!
Okay, if you had a tear or anything like that, there would be blood. Even the smallest bit, just pay attention when you wipe, but since you never mentioned blood, i'm sure you are fine!
Of course it'll be sore, even for the next few days, that's natural! If it was done less rough and you were more prepared, it wouldn't hurt as much but giving the circumstances, yes it's normal to be sore!
Also, the colon is pretty far up, i dont think he would have reached it
I think the chances of you catching anything is low, hopefully he was clean like he said, and if so, you will be fine!
Take it a day at a time and try relax.
If you do start noticing blood, any strong burning especially after going to the bathroom, or if you're still in a lot of pain in the next week, do see a doctor, just to be sure and to ease your mind
I'm sure you're fine, stress can cause weird symthoms in the body
Take it easy and good luck x
Anal sex isn't the worst thing, if there is no blood you're fine, if there is a bit of blood it's just a tear, if he was big than there for sure would be a slight tear, don't worry about that, you'll probably be a bit sore down below there though, I've had anal sex before twice, I managed it, but if it's your 1st time for that than it'll hurt a little bit just like being a virgin again, you don't need to use condoms for anal sex, it's just in case of (tearing) as you said, wearing condoms for the 1st time decreases less pain and not for you to tense up more, go take a hot bath, and concentrate on your breathing. The doctor cannot do anything about anal sex, like I said if he was big there will definitely be tearing, you'll go back to normal. But if he don't have an form of HIV or anything sexually transmitted disease than you're 100% alright.
Don't knock yourself for having a one night stand! Lots of people have them. You just have to be careful. It was disrespectful and dangerous for him to take the condom off without your consent. Also, under the law, if him taking off the condom compromised your consent (or you don't want him to do anything sexual with you without a condom on) and he still keeps going, that's rape by deception, and you can tell someone about it. It's illegal.
And I can't tell you that there is no risk of unprotected anal sex, because that's far from the truth. All I can tell you is get tested. Make sure you always make them wear condoms all the way through.
There's no way he could have ruptured your colon like that. Don't worry.
Don't wait. Get to a doctor and ask him to put you on post exposure HIV medication. Like today. CALL. The risk of your contracting anything is small based on what you described,but better to be safe than sorry. If you bottom again in the future there is PREP medication you take on a daily basis called Truvada which limits your exposure to HIV. No judgement here, because that's the last thing you need right now, but in the future insist on condoms ALL the time regardless of what you're told or you think.
Theres really no way he could have hurt your colon. As for a tear, it's possible but it will heal-I know this from experience. The concern with anal is that you do often tear and that is where HIV can enter but if he said he is clean then I wouldn't worry about it. If you want to get checked out, go for it. Another way to get checked without having an embarrassing doctor's appointment is to give blood-weird I know but they check your blood for all those things and will tell you if you have them.
Next time, use lube, anal can be VERY enjoyable when you have a trusting partner who can go slow and look out for you.
You may tear again-I have anal pretty regularly and still tear at times but I heal and move on.
Be careful, and find somebody you trust to enjoy anal with. it's fun!
so wrong and you know that. if there is no blood when you wipe or defecate, you did not get your colon torn. He took the condom off and "he did not ejaculate" so he wanted to 'rough you up' but any virus--HIV (if he is a carrier) will surly have gotten in you. should you be concerned? Yes, so keep an eye on the tissue after you wipe yourself, and you might want to get tested. NEEEEEVEEEEEERRRR assume he is clean or that you did not get infected...to decrease the likelihood of catching something is not idea.....
I will stand and protect any gay if he were being bullied, but I'm a Christian and need to remind you that this is a sin and a crime in some states (sodomy laws)...
There is really nothing wrong with "hook up" sex it is normal and pleasurable. And a little soreness is ok, just a reminder of some great sex. Safe sex is part of a normal adult life. But if your going to be a bottom you just have to make sure the top has got that condom on. All the Time. Just a bit of advice. Straight guys that get "confused" are the worst about wearing a condom. Gay guys are much more concerned about wearing the condom
I am HIV+ and working with the same here in a Center in Thailand. What you did was wrong but natural and the concern behind it is even if he not come inside you there is still a risk and you must check your Blood of HIV not only for yourself also for others you love.I did not now that i had HIV till three years ago and have been told that i am in the endstage of HIV that mean that I carry this Virus more than 13 years with me without nowing and that makes me sad , just to think about what i did to others without nowing it.Please check if you have HIV..please
Yeah, not a good idea doing rough sex first time.=
You dont say if any bleeding.
= Unlikely he got as far as colon.=
You say you are gay guy but not clear if you have done any preparation
like using butt plugs or toys.= you would normally learn to relax the anal
sphincters = or what lube he used.
Doubt if gonna die in sleep = might have torn anal ring but may just be stretched =
if he did not ejaculate you would not get HIV =
it is actually pretty rare = he may well be clean.
The suggestion to GIVE blood is a good one = if you are really worried =
because they would notify you if any problem.
Think you will survive.
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You should go to the doctors and get checked out just in case. And remember there's no need to feel embarrassed telling this to a doctor, that's what they're there for.
Do not worry and anal sex is common with many. First time is like shearing the vaginal sheet and no need to worry nothing will happen except your friend had a good taste of your **** in his penis that is all have a nice time and forget what has happened other wise your worries will kill your life for the coming years.
what is done is done. is like it takes only once for a woman to get pregnant the same for stds. all you can do is think positive and forget about it if the pain does not go away after a day or so go to the doctor and get it checked out. as for stds many stds cant be dected after some time you have to wait 6 months to get tested. just stay bussy and next time keep the condom on it can save your life
Your partner was selfish or inexperienced himself. Taking the condom off put you at risk for many diseases if he was carrying them. Never accept this behaviour again. It can be homocide by negligence. If I were you I would no longer have any anal sex except with your finger etc. You dont need the worry and danger. People are dying!
Do you consider yourself to be gay? You could have a anal tear but I would think there would be blood if you did. Never let a guy ever stick it in you without protection the chance of disease it to great. You need to have a serious debate with yourself and decide if that is the lifestyle that you want.
I had this too, was worried I got HIV from a guy but I made a HIV test, that's what you should absolutely do
1- I love how honest you are about being gay :) just saying haha
2- no 1 night stands are not a good idea
3- your not gonna bleed to death huni
4-i doubt anything has happened (ie no terrible disease)
5- you should slap that guy silly for taking the condom off :) haha
Hope you feel better soon :)
don't worry. there is no concern. you won't get HIV by a single anal sex. be cool and visit a doctor to be assure.
The risk of getting HIV is not high but the best so;ution is that you and your partner go for a test if he was negative then you are fine.
But please be careful after that, and dont look for one night stand.
You're a ******* ****** i hope he puts it back in your *** and tears it up we don't need your kind around here go back to your country san fransisco
Put some butter on your down there area and them scrub with a towel trust me I am a sex doctor it is the truth <
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