Maybe it sounds shallow, but the base of every romantic relationship is physical attraction. Now before you all thumbs-down me, keep reading first. The fact of the matter is if you simply are not attracted to someone, it doesn't matter if you have trust and communication and all the other answers people generally give...the relationship is not going to move past the friendship stage.
The very basic thing is when you're actually with that person is that you should be able to:
1-feel comfortable with him and he can actually put you at ease when you're with him while you're afraid.
2-feel free to talk about anything private or not,so you don't feel like keeping something from him.
3-to feel that he has the same wavelength that you have.....in other words that he can understand the way you think and it's better when you're age is close,while you can
4-that psychologically you can depend on him,that he is someone you miss when he is not here...if not then maybe you're not attached to him after all.
5-trust him and know him more than anyone.
6-fight with him many times and then make up.When both of you heat up the conversation and both of your voices become loud , it's just a matter of time that you act normal(as if nothing happened from 5 minutes ago...."we where just talking").
these are some common points that long relationships have.
Great question. Not every relationship are the same, though. So different bases for different relationships. However, most relationships will definitely benefit from a good pair of oven mitts, and some fuzzy earmuffs.
Trust.
It's the foundation on which every kind of relationship is made and built on. Honesty, communication, understanding and respect are all attributes that are important but if you can trust each other then all those other things will come naturally.
Trust and respect! Without these two components, you don't have a relationship, and often one or both of these are missing to make a relationship good or even better!
the base of a relationship should be:
Love
Understanding
Care
Intelligently solving problems
friendship is very important in a relationship too
I think both should have same taste & preferences,not in all activities but at least some,if both are totally different person,it could create some problems,
i don't know nothing about relationships but just taking a guess
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trust has got to be the foundation of any relationship,closely followed by honesty without either of these two principles what is the point in the first place ok.
There has to be some attraction there to start with, got to have a srtong bond between you.
Trust. Loyalty. Honesty.
most of all, you have got to understand that people do make mistakes and they cant read minds :)
You feel them,you hear them,understand them,they lift you,you just seem to know their heart like you have known them always,you truly feel the love with them,the facets are passionate,you love growing with them,walking life with them..Trust...you can trust in them,trust in the love they give you,trust them in all things it is just there in thought,word and deed. Without trust..there is nothing..love cannot grow without it..~*
Trust, and commitment. Love isn't always something you just earn. Sometimes you have to work at it. That's commitment. <
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